People say there are three forms of yourself. The Person your friend think you are . The person you think you are . And the person you really are.
Being generally interested in personality, I love thinking about this and I always like to know what others think about me .
I also like to imagine these forms of myself as layers. Because they go increasingly close towards your soul.
But how do I look in these layers ? I added a fourth layer on how strangers perceive me !
First layer : I’m quiet and shy. I stay in the back and am not very dominant . I’m your classic wallflower . A bit insecure but still very tidy.
Second layer: I’m hard to impress but kind. I’m talkative and love deep conversations. I’m not very spontaneous and unsure sometimes. I don’t trust easily . I have most things under control. I am self-confident.
Third layer: I’m scared of a lot of things. I trust easily and too fast sometimes. I choose my friends very careful but I get kind of clingy around them. I have a lot of thoughts. I’m trying to look self-confident but I am very insecure most of the time.
Fourth layer : I don’t know who I really am . Nobody does I guess. I know some things but they are just character traits .
How would others perceive you ?
All my love , J.